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in the christmas pageant of life, i am shepherd number three

i am the patchwork girl

angry feminism, gay little folk bands, critical fangirling, unsolicited opinions on all sorts of things, places and people that inspire me, pretty faces, and that series of traumatic events i call my life.



I remember posting somewhere once in a thread about why girls aren’t exploited in animation anymore where some guy said, “all the disney girls are drawn to be generally attractive, but I don’t think there are any eye-candy men… or are there? Are there any Disney men that lots of girls like?” and I mentioned Roger. Tons of girls replied agreeing with me and the original guy was like “wait, Roger? from 101 Dalmatians? What’s attractive about him, he’s tall and lanky and has a big nose, he isn’t muscley at all! Wouldn’t you all prefer Gaston or something? Or do you girls think his big nose is indicative of something else?” and I was like “no, you idiot, he’s a silly, goofy guy who likes animals and can play a bunch of instruments, that’s why he’s attractive. What’s the matter with you? Gaston, seriously?”

This is why we need more girls in animation. And more guys like Roger apparently. 

This is why I laugh my ass of whenever dudes talk about how men are “objectified” by the media too. Because 9 times out of 10, what men think is “women objectifying men” are characters like Gaston.

And Gaston is NOT a woman-driven fantasy. Gaston is a male wish fulfillment fantasy. Gaston is not what women want, he is what men want to be. He is hyper-masculinity to an extreme degree, dripping with sexism and testosterone. The fact that men think that Gaston is what women want says an awful lot about those men. 

While I don’t want to generalize, female fans tend to prefer a very different kind of male hero. We like the Rogers, the Milos, the Hercules. Genuinely kind, often awkward men who are sometimes vulnerable and respectful to women. 

Yes, this is a generalization. I own up to that. But I think it’s important to remember that there is often VERY big difference between what MEN want to be and what women (not all of whom are even attracted to men) WANT to see in our media. 


GERMANY - In the days leading up to the wedding, it is the best man’s duty to ‘kidnap’ the bride-to-be and leave clues to her whereabouts with friends and family around town for the groom to follow. The groom has to track his bride down as fast as he can because, as tradition dictates, his best man has taken his bride and a group of friends to a local pub to drink until he turns up - and he has to pay the tab.

i could never marry a boy named evan.



To the Boys Who May One Day Date My Daughter - Video

This is so great

The lines in the seventh and eighth gifs make this way better than the usual creepily-overprotective-daughter’s-dad trope.


Remember when Disney was all like ‘fuck how races work and homogeneous casts and couples’?

Black and white couple produce fillipino-american child. White dude is the valet. White step mother, one white step sister, one black step sister. Just a jumble, and it ought to happen again.

Some facts from imdb:

First multi-racial cast performing Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Cinderella.

Whitney Houston was producing Rodger and Hammerstein’s “Cinderella” and was to star in it until she decided that Brandy Norwood would make a better Cinderella. Brandy would not do it unless her idol Whitney took the Fairy Godmother role.

Brandy Norwood became the first African-American to play Cinderella. This version broke viewer-ship records when it debuted, and it holds the record for the bestselling video for a made for TV movie.

So fuck any noise where people say audiences don’t want to see a mixed race couple, or more people of color. This was a success from television. I still remember Brandy singing Impossible. 

That ought to happen again. Mixed race live action cast where the relationships don’t made genetic or racial sense.


how 2 make people feel better ft. dog


how 2 make people feel better ft. dog


following back until I find a tumblr gf


SCOTLAND - According to rural Scottish lore, a marriage will not succeed unless the couple has seen each other at their worst before marrying. The remedy? Blackening! Tradition dictates that it is the wedding party’s duty to take the couple by surprise sometime before the wedding by getting them together and “blackening” them - covering them from head to foot in mud, ashes, molasses, feathers, tar, eggs, entrails and everything else nasty the land has to offer. If the impending bride and groom still love each other after seeing the other at their most pathetic, the marriage will be a success and all involved go out for celebratory drinks (and yes, the pub is obligated to serve the disgusting couple!).